'why is your face so caked in make up' is such a bizarre question. i put it there. there is make up on my face because i wanted it there so i put it there. are you usually this stupid or are you having an off day
You don’t owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend/spouse/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the street. You don’t owe it to your mother, you don’t owe it to your children, you don’t owe it to civilization in general. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space marked ‘female’.